The best advice I can give when it comes to fashion is try it on. You will find many more styles that suit you when you don't have preconceived notions of what works or doesn't work on your body.
At Vivacious we are a hard no on this subject. We want women to feel empowered to wear what they want and define their own style. Check out our latest blog and what a 59, 24 and 20 year old found in common at Vivacious.